Working as an independent phone sex operator can seem like a piece of cake, but it’s not as easy as you may think. This article will explain a few reasons and try to give you some of the secrets that you’ve been seeking.

The first thing you need to determine is whether or not you are genuinely cut out for this type of work. There is more skill involved as an independent than just stringing dirty words together. As an independent you are essentially a business owner, and you need to carefully consider if you have the skills needed to wear all the “hats” that an owner has to.

The phone sex industry is often misunderstood to newbies and seekers. They believe it will be a “quick fix”, a fast income, and a booming instant business. This is NOT the case. It is a business and like any other – it takes time to build it, which could be years. You can consider it much like a commission paid job selling door to door. There is a lot of foot work involved; a lot of selling yourself, using your customer service skills, technical know how, marketing, advertising, and of course performing the actual calls.

Any business owner of any type of business needs to think about money. You’ll be spending it, investing it into your business, paying taxes as a business owner, encountering legal issues, etc. You really need to have some type of reserve prepared for “emergencies” because every business hits a point where they will need it in some way.

The best way to really learn about running your own business or how to be an independent operator is to actually work for someone else, or work for a company for at least 6 months to a year prior to starting on your own. You encounter and see first hand all the work that is done. If you are a good operator and contractor you’ll like get some advice and make some good networking connections with other people. Most owners also started out working somewhere too, and with honesty and by gaining trust within your peers you may even get some type of additional assistance. Most owners appreciate honesty and will really help you out if they see you are responsible and loyal during your work experience with them.

The best experience doesn’t come from asking for help, or asking to be “taught” what to do. It comes from jumping in and learning everything you can on your own. No one can teach you what will work the “best” for you. If you are a hard worker you will learn from everything around you. The internet is your source too. As your self education grows you’ll learn “tricks” or get your own ideas without the assistance of others and you will be able to use them for yourself when it’s time to move on to your own independent service.

Many ladies want to be phone sex operators, but not all are truly going to be good at it. The work is much harder than the general population would have you think. It is not all about moaning and groaning… it’s about creativity, fantasy, intelligence, and weaving beautifully erotic fantasies without effort.

Below is a list of statements for newbies to the industry. You should answer True or False and your answers should be very honest.

The job is something I can display my talents with.

I enjoy talking to all people from all walks of life.

I am confident that I can do fantastic work.

I am self motivated to work independently without relying on others.

I can handle being self employed as an Independent Contractor.

I feel like I can contribute something “positive” to my callers.

I know how to improve my own skills.

I am customer service oriented.

I am mentally creative.

I seek to understand people and to identify with them.

I know the difference between earning “fast money” and “steady income”.

I am a good speaker and a good talker.

I know the difference between empathy and sympathy.

I am not judgmental and I have a good attitude toward sexual lifestyles.

I have excellent writing and communications skills.

I am thick skinned and strong.

Obviously all your answers should have been “True”. This wasn’t really a test but just a way to present a Phone Sex Operator’s skills in a different more positive light. If you are considering a career in the phone sex world, be sure you know what you are getting into and know 100% that you can do it with the very best attitude.