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Should you Tip a Phone Sex Operator

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Phone Sex is an entertainment adult industry where the client typically pays a premium price to speak with a live lady about sexual fantasies. Your goal is to jerk off. The operator’s goal is to have you hang as a happy client. When it works the way it should… it’s fucking awesome.

Something you may notice on many phone sex websites are: Tip Buttons, Tribute Buttons, and gosh even “Donation” buttons. Or you may see Amazon Wishlists for an operator. In essence, this is a way to “TIP” and operator.

But should you do it? Do you need to?

The sex industry is often looked at as seedy, unprofessional, and underground. But in reality, sex work has been around forever, and it’s so much more common than is realized. The Phone Sex Industry is sex work and it’s completely legal. The phone sex industry is more transparent than many other types of sex work even though it’s a “newer” type of sex work compared to many others. A disclaimer here is that sex work is genuine work, and it’s been emerging from the “underground” for quite some time. Even porn has become very mainstream.

Tipping can be a controversial subject in any industry, some feel better wages should be paid instead of tipping, while others feel that being generous for any type of service is just good practice. Most of us know that servers in restaurants for example earn very low wages and rely on tips to survive.

Most personalized phone sex services do pay their operators pretty well. Most companies offer bonus incentive programs so that great operators can earn even more. Many companies give raises based on merit as well. Most companies are ethical and professional. If you seek out independent operators who use non-adult payment methods to accept money from clients, I can’t advise you much. There are too many risks in that type of transaction for clients and for operators. It’s not a good business practice.

I have known of two women over the years who used sob stories and false promises to get extremely large Tips. In both cases it was manipulation and I do not agree with that kind of behavior. A Tip is simply a Tip. An Operator should not manipulate or make promises or use a sad story to get extra money from a client. And a client should not offer Tips as a means to manipulate an Operator for special treatment either. An operator should not ask for tips either unless there is an agreement between the client and her about that. To me asking for tips or “donations” is a bit like panhandling when it’s done willy-nilly.

All of this being said… should you tip a phone sex operator or buy them gifts? My answer is no if it is solicited or requested. Tipping in the phone sex industry is acceptable IF it is completely the client’s choice without coercion. I also personally feel the tip amount should not be more than the cost of the service provided. So if you paid $20 bucks for a call the tip should be $10 or maybe even less. If the client wants to buy a gift off of a lady’s Wishlist then go for it. I just believe it should ALWAYS be the client’s choice and never ever requested. A Tip or a Gift should be a bonus thing or a holiday thing, but always a choice for the customer. To offer a Tip for a job well done is very generous and always appreciated by a phone sex operator!

A Beginner’s Guide to Phone Sex

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You’re new to phone sex, right? Maybe you even think it’s lame or out of date and not cool anymore? You’d be wrong of course because there is more phone sex happening right now than you can imagine. I don’t just mean with the phone sex service, long-distance relationships have phone sex, covid lockdowns created a ton of new people interested in phone sex because it was all they had available. And yes phone sex services like this one still exist and thrive.

What’s the point of phone sex you ask? Well, first of all, you have to get rid of those stereotypes you’ve heard. Phone sex operators are real women, with their own personal tastes, and their own lives, sometimes they have partners too that do not share their sexual tastes. Phone Sex services are not just moaning and groaning calls. An operator has a personality, talents, sexual knowledge, and they do not judge callers! Imagine sharing your deepest desires with NO JUDGEMENT!

Phone Sex is about open communication with another person who wants to engage in a perverse conversation with you. It can be steamy HOT and result in some serious masturbation. You also get to use your imagination which is often much better than porn.

And why should you pay for it? Let me give you some very valid and good reasons to do so.

It’s extremely difficult to find a good phone sex partner without paying for it. Of course, it can happen but it is more difficult. Sometimes it comes with its own set of problems. Maybe the chick is not into getting really nasty because she is shy. Or worse, the chick you meet online for some fun gets attached to you.

When you pay for phone sex you are paying for a lovely lady who isn’t shy, probably has no limits on the topics she’ll talk about, and is not afraid of dirty words. They are not afraid to be shocked or to shock YOU. Sex talk can turn into serious fantasy exploration.

Phone sex operators are always creative Ladies and know how to weave a story together if you only want to listen, and they have advanced communication skills.

When you pay for phone sex you are getting to talk to a lady who is experienced adventurous and eager to please you with no other strings attached. You don’t have to buy her a gift and you don’t have to make any promises, so it’s much less work than going on a date and wondering all night if you’re going to get lucky.

I’ll also add that phone sex is CHEAPER than going on a date. No dinner, no movie, no flowers, no gas money, no shaving, showering, new clothes, or any of that. You can make a call seem like a date with interaction, and small talk, and then get down to the nasty. Or you can have a quickie and hang up the phone to move forward with your day/evening.

Sex, in general, requires clear and honest communication, and with phone sex you can’t see one another so you can literally say or discuss ANYTHING! So much less embarrassment if you want to share your secret fetish!

You can experiment just as you might try to check out different porn videos to see what tickles your pickle. You can just have casual sexual discussions, mutual masturbation, complex roleplays, or simply listen to a hot chick tell you a filthy sex story. You can get to know a woman a bit without her declaring ownership over you.

There are no big commitments to using a phone sex service either. Try it once. Call 60 times. Whatever you want you can have. You can develop an ongoing sexy partnership with one operator or talk to several different ones depending on your mood.

Phone sex is safe sex. It’s not physically cheating, and it’s so much less expensive than you might think it is.

How Long Should a Phone Sex Session Be?

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Sometimes new clients ask for the phone sex operator’s suggestion on how long a phone sex session should be. There is no correct answer to this because it really depends on you.

Phone sex is a highly individualized experience but it’s also a financial one. My honest suggestion to anyone who may be new to phone sex or trying out a new operator for the very first time… is to always opt for the shortest amount of time. You want to make sure you are billed properly and correctly, and that you also connect well with the operator. But for a future call, you may want to do a more complex role-play, a fantasy, or even talk longer in general.

So, let’s go back to our question how long should a phone sex session be? I’m going to give you the guidelines I suggest to clients on the phone.

If your fantasy is short and simple and you’re watching your money then 15 minutes should be plenty enough time to talk to an operator that you like…. and to have a lot of fun.

If your fantasy is detailed, complex, or will take a bit of time to explain it to the operator you should look at 30 minutes and possibly more. But 30 minutes is a very good start.

Technically the amount of time that you purchase with a phone sex operator is really dependent upon you. It depends on how much you want to spend and how detailed your fantasy is.

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What to Look For in a Phone Sex Service

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There are thousands of phone sex websites on the internet. We believe that phone sex is a very personal choice and that different interests apply to all callers. But what do you know about how a phone sex company runs its business? And what SHOULD you know? How do you determine a company is a good one to call?

The  6 Important Questions to Ask yourself before you call that phone sex service!

What customer service support is available? Remember you will be giving out not just personal info about your sexual fantasies but your credit card information.  Are there contact details on the website in the case of a billing error? This is so important. Mistakes unintentionally happen in billing often enough that you need to know who and how to contact the right person to take care of this issue. Human beings do the billing and humans can make mistakes. All companies will fix a billing error that was made on their part. If you are nervous about spending money or giving out details contact the company owner or manager first and see if they can put you at ease. A good phone sex company is obviously going to want to make sure you are not worried about billing.

Is there legal information, policies, terms, and procedures available on the website? Merchant banks require this sort of information to be posted on a website. Not only is it a good practice in general… it is REQUIRED. As a customer, you should know your rights.

How do they accept payments? Phone Sex is an adult service that requires a special merchant account to accept credit cards. Paypal, CashApp, Venmo, and Stripe are just a few types of billing processors that do NOT allow adult services.  If a company is accepting these types of payments you should worry a bit. It means they are not following the “rules” and their business may not be fully legit.  And as a client, you should not use these services to make a payment as you are risking your own account being closed. A company accepting credit cards has to submit tons of paperwork about their company and their business practices are investigated. The rules for adult businesses are VERY strict.

What methods of Contact are on the website? A quality company offers many means of contact and is available for communication with you. If you can not find a way to contact an owner or manager then think twice about using that service. A customer service number is important and so is email. You should find more than one way to contact that company. Scams hide… a true business does not!

What’s the content of the website? A pretty design that is cute is fine, but what does the website really SAY to you? We know when searching for phone sex that much of the blood has drained from your brain and gone “south”. But please READ a website over before you make a purchase. This applies to literally any business. Ask yourself how professional it seems. Is it designed well? Are all of the details you need easy to find? Is the service “fishing with a wide net” or “keyword stuffing”? These are a few poor practices that an unprofessional service will do to try and hit every fetish under the sun. Think about their strategy and point with content. Sure you want some freebies like free pictures and stuff. But really read the content. Make sure a website is “open” and “inviting” to you and FEELS safe.

Are the billing details clear and safe? Read that billing info and any FAQ page on the site too before you hand out your credit card number. Beware of connection fees, added fees, more charges, and so forth. You should know how is your credit card information accepted and who all sees it or has access to it.

Obviously, there are other important factors to which phone sex service you choose to use. It has to appeal to you sexually too. But please never forget about the professional business side of things. You want to “get off” and never get “ripped off”.

 

Be a Phone Sex Operators Favorite Client

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Phone Sex Operators Have Favorite Clients.

Did you know this? There are some benefits to being THAT guy. It doesn’t mean her time for you is “free” or that you can expect special favors. But it is likely that if you are a favorite client you will always catch her in a good mood. She’s happy to hear from you. A good mood makes for a better call. She may also be likely to take your call at times other than her normal work hours. While it’s not possible for every operator’s lifestyle – being well-liked is going to benefit you.

Now I am going to give you some pointers on how to become a favorite phone sex client. Pay attention to this list because it’s here to help callers!

 

Treat her with respect! This sounds so simple, and honestly, it IS. But you would be shocked at the number of assholes we talk to. It’s sad to say that but it is true. Some callers are literally out to upset or piss off a phone sex operator intentionally. A good operator can spot that, but it’s still not fun to deal with. If you think about any job – there are always assholes. Don’t be THAT guy.

 

Share a fantasy with them! A completely one-sided call is boring whether it’s you or her that does all of the talking. Communication takes work and it is mutual interaction so please be engaged.

 

Get creative together! Add your input and ideas. Allow the operator to as well. Create an erotic/nasty adventure together. A phone sex operator wants to be a team player with you, like, literally. There is nothing more boring than a 2 person conversation where one party is completely silent.

 

Don’t think of her as a servant to your desires. Some callers think the phone sex operator (and webcam ladies too) are like “dancing monkeys” and are supposed to “perform” for them exactly as they want. Good phone sex operators try to fulfill ALL requests on the caller’s desires. But you also have to understand that the operator has a personality of her own as she is not a robot. She is going to interject some of that personality into her performance. If you want a robot to just recite your fantasy verbatim then there are internet readers online for free that can do that.

 

Always be polite and thankful when it’s needed. Simply saying thank you for a great call is a wonderful and generous kindness that phone sex operators rarely get to hear.

 

Get to know her a little. I don’t mean that you have to spend hours of time for her to talk about her life while you pay for it. A minute or two is often enough to show you see her as a human being.

 

Communicate well. If the operator is not going in the direction you wanted, it’s just possible she misunderstood your fantasy. Stop her. Correct her politely. You should get your money’s worth out of a phone sex call. At the same time, you cannot blame everything on an operator if something is misunderstood. So if you just communicate clearly she’ll get it. If she doesn’t then you should use your voice to explain it again quickly.

 

Don’t expect more than what she is offering. Many times per day we are asked for a free call and to meet a client. These are two things a good operator never does. We hear it so much per day that it can make us defensive after awhile. A favorite client understands that phone sex is a service. But it DOES involve real people… you and the lady you are speaking to. She has a life outside of phone sex with family, friends, dates, and so forth. A favorite understands that you and the operator won’t become a part of each other’s “real life”.

 

It’s that simple my friends. You know the secret touch now!

Phone Sex Tips for Callers

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You can transform a good phone sex call into the sexiest experience in your life. Phone Sex Operators are modern and are not sitting in huge call centers surrounded by other people. Those places don’t exist anymore! Today Phone Sex Girls work from the privacy of their own homes where your conversations are truly personal. They take their work seriously (and playfully) and are dedicated to providing you with a special intimate conversation just for you.  They are driven by the desires of their own passion.

Make sure that you are in a quiet, comfortable environment when you call.  Then both of you will hear each other, without distracting background noise.  Create your own sexual environment.

Make sure you have privacy and enough time to do deal with the billing and your call. Know ahead of time how long you want to talk or what you want to spend. A reputable service is not going to allow you to spend all of your money. A quality company or operator won’t keep you on the line just to rack up money.

Have your credit card ready for any phone sex operator or service that you call. Do the billing procedure as efficiently as you can.

Once connected to a sexy lady say “hello” and introduce yourself. Allow her to do the same.

The greatest lubricant in phone sex is communication.  Sometimes it may be awkward to share your deepest secrets.  But when you do, that allows a woman to respond to you lovingly and give you the experience you want.  Phone Sex is an interactive sport.  The more you participate, the more you get out of it.

If you don’t like something – then speak up. An operator is not a mind reader. Or if you feel like you are not “connecting” with a particular lady then hang up. Do force the experience because if you do when you aren’t “feeling” it then you will not enjoy the session. Be realistic.

Don’t forget that you and only you have control over your body. Phone Sex Operators cannot MAKE you orgasm. Allow nature to take its course, enjoy the company, and conversation.  But most of the HARD work is going to be done by your hand.

 

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Phone Sex Services

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Phone Sex Services allow you to act out a fantasy or roleplay without causing harm to anyone else. You can go as dark and taboo as you’d like to share things that you would never tell your friends!

Phone Sex Services allow you to be whomever you want without any questions or judgments. Try playing a new role; after all, no one really knows you on the phone.

Phone Sex Services are also very convenient. You can usually call anytime, from anywhere, and get connected to a sexy woman. And you never have to think about foreplay!

Many callers call from home, their cars, the office, etc. A Phone Sex Service is also in the business of “Privacy” and “Discretion”. They are skilled and professional about keeping your secrets safe.

Phone Sex Services allow you to add another dimension of sexuality to your life without hurting anyone else. If you are married but don’t want to cheat on your spouse, phone sex is the easiest and safest way to do it. There is no physical contact involved, it’s no different than you watching a porn video and jerking off. Although phone sex is a bit more intimate because you have that immediate interaction with another person.

Phone services are cheaper than a date. No drinks, dinners, movies, or the like. You don’t have to get dressed up and there is no need to try and impress an operator. You can just be you. It’s so easy. You dial the phone and get ready to bone! A phone sex operator is a talented and creative female who will get right down to it with you!

Phone Sex is an erotic form of entertainment that provides a safe outlet for your sexual fantasies. Operators are skilled and much kinkier than trying to find some casual fling online.

If you have never tried phone sex then you don’t even know if you like it. I have never once heard a caller say they hated it. The reason is simple, it’s just more fun than jerking off alone.

 

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What is the Point of Phone Sex?

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What can phone sex really do for you?

  • Phone Sex can enhance your masturbation!
  • Phone Sex can enrich your fantasy!
  • Phone sex can help you explore taboo fantasies!
  • Phone sex can be a lot like sex therapy because you can talk about many things!

Don’t ever feel guilty or ashamed of your fantasies. Wild and kinky fantasies mean you’re intelligent and have a vivid imagination which all women find attractive. Sexy, attractive men do like phone-sex, too. It’s a silly stereotype to believe phone sex is only for lonely men or losers.

  • That which doesn’t do harm in real life is perfectly normal!
  • Phone sex is not intended to be a replacement for sex.
  • Phone sex is enhanced masturbation with a partner.
  • Fantasies are normal, and that means any fantasy!

All men need to jerk off whether they are married, single, and fucking daily. Masturbation is a purely selfish act, but one that is a bit like “self-care” and it’s perfectly healthy! Sometimes masturbation is better because you don’t even have to worry about another person!

Take a good long look around this Phone Sex Directory to find the right style of Phone Sex for you!

 

 

Quickie Sex and Quickie Jerk Offs

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Everybody Needs a Good Quickie

Everybody seems to be obsessed with different sex techniques, all of that “how-to” or “tips to” for great sex. But how about impulsiveness and spontaneity? Are we getting enough of it?  Human beings crave sexual adventure, impulsive desire, passionate sex. Those feelings of when both of you are horny as hell and want it RIGHT NOW. You know that feeling! It seems as we often forgot about the spontaneous quickie.

A quickie doesn’t mean bad sex. It’s just the variant of it and having sex in a forbidden place or situation may actually improve your relationship/s. It’s like sharing with your partner something nobody else can share and creating a tight intimate connection between the two of you. It’s like having a secret no one but you two will ever know.  That makes the experience very exciting!

Adrenaline kicks up in the body by the thought of being discovered while having quickie in a public place. A single thought of having sex at a party,  in a restaurant’s restroom, at the office, at the stares, at a public park can be very arousing and stimulating. The naughtiness of the situation will start your motors running and lead to very passionate and intense sex, which can be much better than sexual intercourse you have in your beds.

What about the foreplay, the importance of which was discussed and highlighted in hundreds of articles and books on sex? Skip it, the adrenaline in your blood will compensate for any foreplay. Sometimes foreplay is not needed!

Quickie sex is also about experimenting. Just imagine what awkward positions you will have to invent while having sex in an uncomfortable position. You certainly have to get more creative and doing so allows you to bring some of your fantasies into the situation.

So, what holds you back from having more quickies? Some people think that by showing their partner that they want quick sex they offend them in some way. But in fact, if you’re horny and lusting for your partner, wanting quick sex will only assure your partner that you still fancy him/her.

The most amazing thing about having a quickie is the freedom you feel. There is no right place or time for a quickie. It’s only up to you and your imagination. Sometimes we just have to give in to our animal instincts. Let nature take over and it will guide your desire. Just because not to break any laws or to offend an unwilling witness 🙂

An interesting fact is that Phone Sex is often spontaneous and much like a “quickie”.  Often masturbation enters our minds in the same way. It’s like an urge we must fulfill. Those without a sex partner available or one who may not be interested will often satisfy that quickie desire with Phone Sex. And the truth is that Phone Sex is a lot more fun than just looking at a porn video by yourself and jerking off in 60 seconds. Phone Sex allows for some actual human interaction.

You need more quickies in your life. Admit it. So whether it’s a phone sex quickie or a real-time with a partner quickie… get some today!