A Beginner’s Guide to Phone Sex

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You’re new to phone sex, right? Maybe you even think it’s lame or out of date and not cool anymore? You’d be wrong of course because there is more phone sex happening right now than you can imagine. I don’t just mean with the phone sex service, long-distance relationships have phone sex, covid lockdowns created a ton of new people interested in phone sex because it was all they had available. And yes phone sex services like this one still exist and thrive.

What’s the point of phone sex you ask? Well, first of all, you have to get rid of those stereotypes you’ve heard. Phone sex operators are real women, with their own personal tastes, and their own lives, sometimes they have partners too that do not share their sexual tastes. Phone Sex services are not just moaning and groaning calls. An operator has a personality, talents, sexual knowledge, and they do not judge callers! Imagine sharing your deepest desires with NO JUDGEMENT!

Phone Sex is about open communication with another person who wants to engage in a perverse conversation with you. It can be steamy HOT and result in some serious masturbation. You also get to use your imagination which is often much better than porn.

And why should you pay for it? Let me give you some very valid and good reasons to do so.

It’s extremely difficult to find a good phone sex partner without paying for it. Of course, it can happen but it is more difficult. Sometimes it comes with its own set of problems. Maybe the chick is not into getting really nasty because she is shy. Or worse, the chick you meet online for some fun gets attached to you.

When you pay for phone sex you are paying for a lovely lady who isn’t shy, probably has no limits on the topics she’ll talk about, and is not afraid of dirty words. They are not afraid to be shocked or to shock YOU. Sex talk can turn into serious fantasy exploration.

Phone sex operators are always creative Ladies and know how to weave a story together if you only want to listen, and they have advanced communication skills.

When you pay for phone sex you are getting to talk to a lady who is experienced adventurous and eager to please you with no other strings attached. You don’t have to buy her a gift and you don’t have to make any promises, so it’s much less work than going on a date and wondering all night if you’re going to get lucky.

I’ll also add that phone sex is CHEAPER than going on a date. No dinner, no movie, no flowers, no gas money, no shaving, showering, new clothes, or any of that. You can make a call seem like a date with interaction, and small talk, and then get down to the nasty. Or you can have a quickie and hang up the phone to move forward with your day/evening.

Sex, in general, requires clear and honest communication, and with phone sex you can’t see one another so you can literally say or discuss ANYTHING! So much less embarrassment if you want to share your secret fetish!

You can experiment just as you might try to check out different porn videos to see what tickles your pickle. You can just have casual sexual discussions, mutual masturbation, complex roleplays, or simply listen to a hot chick tell you a filthy sex story. You can get to know a woman a bit without her declaring ownership over you.

There are no big commitments to using a phone sex service either. Try it once. Call 60 times. Whatever you want you can have. You can develop an ongoing sexy partnership with one operator or talk to several different ones depending on your mood.

Phone sex is safe sex. It’s not physically cheating, and it’s so much less expensive than you might think it is.

Quickie Sex and Quickie Jerk Offs

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Everybody Needs a Good Quickie

Everybody seems to be obsessed with different sex techniques, all of that “how-to” or “tips to” for great sex. But how about impulsiveness and spontaneity? Are we getting enough of it?  Human beings crave sexual adventure, impulsive desire, passionate sex. Those feelings of when both of you are horny as hell and want it RIGHT NOW. You know that feeling! It seems as we often forgot about the spontaneous quickie.

A quickie doesn’t mean bad sex. It’s just the variant of it and having sex in a forbidden place or situation may actually improve your relationship/s. It’s like sharing with your partner something nobody else can share and creating a tight intimate connection between the two of you. It’s like having a secret no one but you two will ever know.  That makes the experience very exciting!

Adrenaline kicks up in the body by the thought of being discovered while having quickie in a public place. A single thought of having sex at a party,  in a restaurant’s restroom, at the office, at the stares, at a public park can be very arousing and stimulating. The naughtiness of the situation will start your motors running and lead to very passionate and intense sex, which can be much better than sexual intercourse you have in your beds.

What about the foreplay, the importance of which was discussed and highlighted in hundreds of articles and books on sex? Skip it, the adrenaline in your blood will compensate for any foreplay. Sometimes foreplay is not needed!

Quickie sex is also about experimenting. Just imagine what awkward positions you will have to invent while having sex in an uncomfortable position. You certainly have to get more creative and doing so allows you to bring some of your fantasies into the situation.

So, what holds you back from having more quickies? Some people think that by showing their partner that they want quick sex they offend them in some way. But in fact, if you’re horny and lusting for your partner, wanting quick sex will only assure your partner that you still fancy him/her.

The most amazing thing about having a quickie is the freedom you feel. There is no right place or time for a quickie. It’s only up to you and your imagination. Sometimes we just have to give in to our animal instincts. Let nature take over and it will guide your desire. Just because not to break any laws or to offend an unwilling witness 🙂

An interesting fact is that Phone Sex is often spontaneous and much like a “quickie”.  Often masturbation enters our minds in the same way. It’s like an urge we must fulfill. Those without a sex partner available or one who may not be interested will often satisfy that quickie desire with Phone Sex. And the truth is that Phone Sex is a lot more fun than just looking at a porn video by yourself and jerking off in 60 seconds. Phone Sex allows for some actual human interaction.

You need more quickies in your life. Admit it. So whether it’s a phone sex quickie or a real-time with a partner quickie… get some today!